How to Choose a Partner

Relationships have such an amazing story to them. We meet this person who is a reflection of everything we ever dreamed. They see things in us that make their soul sing. We spend time getting to know each other, telling each other all the dreams and secrets that drift...

Intimacy Unplugged

The incredible access we have to high speed electronics that connect us to the world at large is nothing short of amazing. We can use electronics and the internet to do almost anything from anywhere, and the convenience factor is unlike anything else. We can use it to...

Does Counselling Help After Cheating?

Counselling after cheating or betrayal can be the difference between facing a problem together and fighting each other. Turning towards each other, seeing each other with compassion and showing resilience can mean the difference between relationship breakdown and...
Social Scripts

Social Scripts

What were you told about sex when you were first learning about it in grade school? What information did your parents give you about the emotional aspect to it? Were you taught how to say “no”, or how to take “no” from a partner with grace?...
I Refuse to Plan Sex

I Refuse to Plan Sex

People do not want to plan sex. This is one of the most common things I hear in practice. And I totally get it. Everything we see in movies, read in books, and the way humans boast about sex, all tell us good sex is spontaneous, and when it isn’t there must be...