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Religious and/or Spiritual Abuse
** Content Warning: homophobia, transphobia, psychological abuse, very brief and undetailed mentions of sexual...
Placating your Partner with Sex
Sex in a relationship can be a really tricky topic. When sex is "going well", it accounts for what feels like 10% of...
Dating your Partner
Dating your partner long after the new relationship energy wanes is a great way to keep complacency at bay. Whether...
How to Choose a Partner
Relationships have such an amazing story to them. We meet this person who is a reflection of everything we ever...
Intimacy Unplugged
The incredible access we have to high speed electronics that connect us to the world at large is nothing short of...
Does Counselling Help After Cheating?
Counselling after cheating or betrayal can be the difference between facing a problem together and fighting each...
Social Scripts
What were you told about sex when you were first learning about it in grade school? What information did your parents...
I Refuse to Plan Sex
People do not want to plan sex. This is one of the most common things I hear in practice. And I totally get it....
The Art of Swinging
Simply put, and super generalized, swinging is a practice where people in a relationship "swap" partners or have sex...